Why I read it?
John Maxwell is a favorite around the firm, and I enjoyed his book, High Road Leadership. I was struck by his humility and his ability to inspire change while offering practical, actionable advice. When Kylie shared this book with me, I was excited to learn how a great communicator like John approaches sharing his message with others.
What is it all about?
This book focuses on overcoming fear and ineffectiveness as a speaker. John sums it up best: “No matter what your level of communication, know this: your life and words can be a catalyst for positive change in the lives of others.”
What caused me to pause?
The book begins by introducing the Law of Credibility: “Your most effective message is the one you live.” This principle really resonated with me. I strive to follow through and do what I say I’m going to do, but this was a powerful reminder of the impact my actions have on those around me. John writes, “People are eager to listen because of who you are” and that is the standard I want to embody.
How will this book change my habits or influence me?
“You don’t need to speak a long time to say a lot. It’s not the number of words you use; it’s the impact you make with the words you use.” I’m not typically the first person to speak up in a group, and when I do, I often feel anxious about not having enough to say. This book reminded me that what matters most is the quality of the message, not its length. The most impactful communicators I know are thoughtful, deliberate, and concise. They focus on how their words will be received rather than filling space with unnecessary talk. That’s the approach I want to adopt.
Add this to your reading list if…
You want to make the most of your message and gain confidence in doing so! “Whether you want to lead a business, teach a class, sell a product, preach a sermon, train a staff member, coach a team, earn a degree, run a nonprofit, or speak at a neighborhood meeting, learning to communicate better will help you.”
Pickle Rating: I would give this book a 4 out of 5!
Bonus: The 16 Undeniable Laws of Communication:
- The Law of Credibility
- The Law of Observation
- The Law of Conviction
- The Law of Preparation
- The Law of Collaboration
- The Law of Content
- The Law of Connecting
- The Law of Leverage
- The Law of Simplicity
- The Law of Visual Expression
- The Law of Storytelling
- The Law of the Thermostat
- The Law of Change-Up
- The Law of Adding Value
- The Law of Results
The World is Your Oyster